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Stages
Letter Posted by CO () on 1-09-2015 2:18 am
Everyone is experiencing these at some point. You, of all people, would be familiar with them. After all, it was you who introduced us to the book that started it all. Granted, this was a familiar concept, but never knew the origin. Always learn something new everyday.

Denial and Isolation/Shock
Anger
Bargaining
Depression
Acceptance

Since the incident happened more than a week ago, have been drifting in and out of these different stages at different times and sometimes living in them all at the same time. The shock has long since wore off. Accepted this is where we're at now. Never angry with you, it's more like angry at the cause. I must admit, never felt depressed though, saddened, sure, depressed, never! Maybe deep down sensing that this is coming, just didn't know when. Given the propensity, knowing that bargaining would be in vain. So, why bother? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Which stage are you at? I know where I'm at - HOPE!

CO